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Should You Stay or Should You Go? How to Escape the Sunk Cost Trap

A question to ask yourself whenever you're tempted to throw good money — or years — after bad

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Kate McKay
Aug 05, 2026
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It’s been a year since I graduated from college. I’ve just finished up doing twelve months of full-time service with the Americorps program in California. For the next chapter of my life, I am going to be pursuing a master’s degree in political science from the University of Oklahoma.

I’ve taken the GRE, filled out my application, gotten accepted, and moved all my stuff into a studio apartment in Norman, OK.

It’s a few weeks before the semester starts, and I’m attending an orientation for new poli sci graduate students that goes over what to expect from the program — what kinds of courses are offered, what the classes will be like, what kind of research we’ll be doing, and so on.

As I sit there in a circle of chairs with a bunch of eager-looking students, I start to get a pit in my stomach that only grows as the minutes tick by.

A sinking realization hits me: I have no idea what I’m doing there.

Well, this is not exactly true.

A lot of the reason for what I’m doing there has to do with Brett.

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