Sunday Firesides: You Are Not Responsible for Other People's Feelings

“I can’t break up with her; she’d be devastated.”

“I can’t quit my job; it would stress out my co-workers.”

“I can’t say no to helping out with this event; my friend would be really frustrated.”

These are the kinds of things that run through many men’s minds — especially those of the “Nice Guy” type — when they think about making a decision that will affec…